How to?
Ok first of all read thorougly before replying. Second of all I have this extremely rare disease that causes extremely low estrogen or where your body can’t produce estrogen in your body. I have to take meds that regulate my hormones. I’m 22 now. I am mentally a teenager I think because I always feel lazy and not wanting to do anything.
How do I get over this immaturity. I always seem to find something to bother me and not want to do college school work or work at all and just lay around doing nothing. I am sick of it. How do I mature?? my counselor wouldn’t even help me on this. Maybe find a new one?? I also feel guilty for feeling like what a teen feels. I even look like a teen. Thing is I’m not interested in sex like teens are. I just don’t feel like doing anything. I had puberty induced when I was 18. Been depressed since. Suggestions? Before I reached puberty I did a lot more.
Take some antidepressants. I would talk to a medical doctor to see what i could do.
When I was a teen I didn’t “lay around and do nothing.” If you really want to change then you will. If you don’t want it badly enough, then you won’t. On top of that–seeking further medical advice would be a good idea.
You know: There are some Pills and herbs that have estrogen. Maybe start trying those?? I know:soy really helps.
It sounds like you are a teen, hormonally speaking. If you started puberty 4 years ago, and most girls start at 12 or so, you are hormonally only about 16. Hormones make people nuts. ( So speaks the mother of 2 teens , and is going though Peri-menopause.) I think you might want to talk to your doctor and check the level of hormones you are taking, it might be that either more or less would help. Since you don’t feel much interest in sex, you probably need a higher dose. MY hormones are dropping off right now, and I feel lazy, depressed and uninterested in most things, so I get what you mean. Talk to your doctor.
You have to do SOMETHING!
Be of value to someone else, and at the same time get out of your funk, and Volunteer! You are stuck in the ‘poor me’s', and have to get out of your head and “stinkin’ thinkin’”
It’s amazing the “high” you get out of doing something for someone out of the goodness of your heart!
Forget about sex, drugs and alcohol, they will all make your situation worse.
Just go and do anything you like, like a new hobby, but serving your community as a volunteer will lift your spirits and give you self esteem!
Seeing a new doctor, and a new counsellor will be effective too. People care about you and your health, so don’t disappoint them and GET GOOD BUSY!
You can do it!
This doesn’t sound so much like a psychological problem as it does a medical one. Absolutely talk to your doctor about this. It could be a side effect of your condition and the medications you’ve had to take. Don’t let anyone make you feel as if you’re just being lazy. If you were, you wouldn’t be so bothered by this and be wanting to make a change. Hang in there.